[See you just posted Shifter, so you are already on the journey

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And here I am thughes

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Howdy Shifter

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What I think you'll need to do is, at least initially, use your refractometer in conjunction with your hydrometer. A refractometer is essentially a tool that is used in situations such as a vineyard. You walk through the vineyard, take lots of samples from lots of grapes (which are at ambient temperature unlike boiling wort) and then the average tells you how the crop is coming along. Measuring one grape from a whole vineyard tells you little.
Taking a small sample from several gallons of beer can also cause problems. A bit of muck in the sample will throw your reading. Layering of the wort will affect your reading. How you cool the sample will affect your reading. How long you leave it in the refractometer will affect your reading - it rises over time.
I've had brew days and asked everyone to write down the refractometer reading and have had several different answers. So, it's a tool that needs to be used carefully. (I only use my refractometer now if another brewer comes around so as I can show them these little quirks.)
Even using them to take small samples from your fermentor is risky due to the layering that occurs in fermentors.
Because of all the above, I really find a hydrometer with a nice wide jar, the most practical tool. Take a mug of wort from the boil etc, cover it with wrap (to prevent evaporation), let it cool and take your reading. Return the sample to the boil. In the fermentor, after aeration and pitching, you can take another sample and let it sit in your hydrometer for the whole fermentation. This allows you to see on a daily basis, what is happening in the main fermentor and will tell you when fermentation is complete.
So, learn to use the refractometer in conjunction with your hydrometer so as you get a feel for what samples are good (eg - no bubbles and no muck), how to cool the sample etc and just treat it as a guide rather than a god.
I remember being excited when I first bought a hydrometer (and a thousand other things

) that after a while, weren't what I hoped they'd be. All part of the fun

. I don't think it's a waste of money for you as it will teach you a good disrespect for single measurements and this is, honestly, a great thing to learn as fast as possible.
Play with it, experiment with it and you'll have some fun and learn a heap so all's good mate

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Cheers Shifter,
PP
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